How the 7-Wing Modifies Type 6
The 7-wing adds extroversion and optimism. Manages anxiety by staying busy and connecting. Charming, funny, ingratiating. Prone to anxious chattering. Less independent than 6w5.
In Relationships
Strengths
- Warm and engaging
- Fun and playful
- Uses humor to connect
- Eager to bond
Challenges
- Dependent decision-making
- Deflects serious issues
- Erratic emotional temperature
- Cycles between blame and begging
Conflict Style
Panics. Cycles between blaming and begging. Uses humor to deflect stress.
Loving Style
Playmate and Protector seeker. Engaging and witty. Falls in love quickly.
Attachment Style Tendency
Primary Tendency
Anxious-Preoccupied
The Pursuer
Secondary Tendency
Fearful-Avoidant
The Waverer
Wing Effect on Attachment
7-wing moves toward people to dilute fear. Uses relationship as pacifier. Clingier than 6w5. 'Pull' is stronger than 'push.'
Anxious-Preoccupied Attachment
Craves closeness and fears abandonment. Highly attuned to partner's moods and availability. May sacrifice own needs to maintain connection.
Core Belief: I am not enough on my own. I need others to feel complete. If I'm not vigilant, I will be abandoned.
Strategy: Hyper-activation—intensifies connection-seeking behaviors when threatened. Monitors partner closely for signs of withdrawal.
Core Type
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