How the 5-Wing Modifies Type 6
The 5-wing adds introversion and skepticism. Manages anxiety by withdrawing and analyzing. Serious and focused loner. Tests partner's consistency extensively. Values privacy and autonomy.
In Relationships
Strengths
- Deeply loyal once trust earned
- Serious commitment focus
- Protective vigilance
- Values one deep connection
Challenges
- Paranoid testing of loyalty
- Pessimistic outlook
- Bunker mentality
- Exhausts partner with tests
Conflict Style
Becomes paranoid. Constructs conspiracy theories. Retreats with codified grievances.
Loving Style
Safe Harbor seeker. Tests partners rigorously. Serious and focused on loyalty.
Attachment Style Tendency
Primary Tendency
Fearful-Avoidant
The Waverer
Secondary Tendency
Dismissive-Avoidant
The Island
Wing Effect on Attachment
5-wing creates 'bunker mentality.' Doesn't trust world or people. Monitors for betrayal while withdrawing for protection.
Fearful-Avoidant Attachment
Desires closeness but fears it deeply. Caught between wanting connection and fearing hurt. Often experienced as push-pull dynamics.
Core Belief: I want love but I will get hurt. People are both necessary and dangerous. I cannot trust but I cannot survive alone.
Strategy: Disorganized—oscillates between seeking closeness and pushing away. No consistent strategy for handling attachment needs.
Core Type
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