The 2-wing adds social and interpersonal focus. Extremely attentive and flattering. Studies partner like auditioning for a role. Warmer and more physically affectionate.
Strengths
- Extremely attentive
- Generous and thoughtful
- Socially intelligent
- Creates fan-club feeling
Challenges
- Transactional giving
- Deceit and masking flaws
- Vindictive if rejected
- Struggles with unglamorous reality
Smooths things over quickly. Terrified of being the 'bad guy.' Tries to get back to winning.
Fan Club relationship. Generous but transactional. Gives attention to get applause.
Primary Tendency
Secure
The Anchor
Secondary Tendency
Anxious-Preoccupied
The Pursuer
Wing Effect on Attachment
2-wing pushes toward Anxious through need for validation. Appears Secure through competence but constantly checks relationship temperature.
Secure Attachment
Comfortable with intimacy and independence. Can depend on others and allow others to depend on them. Trusts that relationships are generally safe and rewarding.
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