How the 3-Wing Modifies Type 2
The 3-wing adds ambition and adaptability. Shapeshifter who morphs into ideal persona. Driven by shame and fear of failure. Works tirelessly to maintain perfect union image.
In Relationships
Strengths
- Seductive and playful
- High-energy engagement
- Charming and attentive
- Creates glamorous partnership
Challenges
- Performance-based love
- Histrionic tendencies
- Inauthenticity issues
- Status anxiety affecting partner
Conflict Style
Dramatic outbursts. Competitive—tries to 'win' breakups. May use jealousy as a tool.
Loving Style
Romance Star. Craves grand gestures and public displays. Focused on appearance.
Attachment Style Tendency
Primary Tendency
Anxious-Preoccupied
The Pursuer
Secondary Tendency
Fearful-Avoidant
The Waverer
Wing Effect on Attachment
3-wing adds performance-based anxiety. Histrionic tendencies; creates drama for attention. Can become manipulative if humiliated.
Anxious-Preoccupied Attachment
Craves closeness and fears abandonment. Highly attuned to partner's moods and availability. May sacrifice own needs to maintain connection.
Core Belief: I am not enough on my own. I need others to feel complete. If I'm not vigilant, I will be abandoned.
Strategy: Hyper-activation—intensifies connection-seeking behaviors when threatened. Monitors partner closely for signs of withdrawal.
Core Type
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