How the 1-Wing Modifies Type 2
The 1-wing adds conscience and duty to emotionality. Views love as obligations and responsibilities. Suppresses needs as 'selfish.' Often the 'responsible parent' role.
In Relationships
Strengths
- Dutiful and reliable
- Practical acts of service
- Serious commitment
- Strong moral foundation
Challenges
- Martyr complex
- Accumulates emotional debt
- Passive-aggressive expression
- Secret moral superiority
Conflict Style
Passive-aggressive. Relies on guilt induction and non-verbal cues. Cannot express needs directly.
Loving Style
Background supporter. Uncomfortable with spotlight. Practical and understated romance.
Attachment Style Tendency
Primary Tendency
Anxious-Preoccupied
The Pursuer
Secondary Tendency
Secure
The Anchor
Wing Effect on Attachment
1-wing creates moralistic anxiety bound by rules. 'If I am good and serve, you must love me.' Trust in earned merit, not unconditional love.
Anxious-Preoccupied Attachment
Craves closeness and fears abandonment. Highly attuned to partner's moods and availability. May sacrifice own needs to maintain connection.
Core Belief: I am not enough on my own. I need others to feel complete. If I'm not vigilant, I will be abandoned.
Strategy: Hyper-activation—intensifies connection-seeking behaviors when threatened. Monitors partner closely for signs of withdrawal.
Core Type
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