How the 8-Wing Modifies Type 9
The 8-wing adds assertiveness to the 9. Creates internal tension—peace vs intensity. Can be surprisingly forceful when pushed. More grounded and stubborn. Resists being controlled.
In Relationships
Strengths
- Grounded presence
- Can stand ground when needed
- Steady with hidden strength
- Creates comfortable environment
Challenges
- Oscillates between passivity and forcefulness
- Internal conflict creates confusion
- May explode after long suppression
- Resists being controlled or pushed
Conflict Style
Passive until pushed, then surprisingly forceful. Stubbornly resists when feeling controlled.
Loving Style
Comfortable Companion seeker. Values peace but needs respect. Hidden strength.
Attachment Style Tendency
Primary Tendency
Fearful-Avoidant
The Waverer
Secondary Tendency
Dismissive-Avoidant
The Island
Wing Effect on Attachment
Arthur's key finding: 9w8 correlates with Disorganized. Internal conflict between peace-seeking and intensity creates quiet chaos.
Fearful-Avoidant Attachment
Desires closeness but fears it deeply. Caught between wanting connection and fearing hurt. Often experienced as push-pull dynamics.
Core Belief: I want love but I will get hurt. People are both necessary and dangerous. I cannot trust but I cannot survive alone.
Strategy: Disorganized—oscillates between seeking closeness and pushing away. No consistent strategy for handling attachment needs.
Core Type
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