How the 4-Wing Modifies Type 5
The 4-wing adds emotional depth and subjectivity. More interested in human element. Willing to explore dark emotions with partner. More turbulent than 5w6. Feels defective or misunderstood.
In Relationships
Strengths
- Deep feeling capacity
- Imaginative and creative
- Emotional depth with partner
- Unconventional perspective
Challenges
- Emotional hoarding
- Self-absorbed isolation
- Low social battery
- Feels invaded by emotions
Conflict Style
Hypersensitive. Retreats to protect fragile inner world. Hurt silence rather than logic.
Loving Style
Meeting of Minds and Souls. Attracted to mysterious and unconventional.
Attachment Style Tendency
Primary Tendency
Fearful-Avoidant
The Waverer
Secondary Tendency
Dismissive-Avoidant
The Island
Wing Effect on Attachment
4-wing softens hard shell. Wants connection but fears engulfment. May feel lonely but lacks skills to bridge gap.
Fearful-Avoidant Attachment
Desires closeness but fears it deeply. Caught between wanting connection and fearing hurt. Often experienced as push-pull dynamics.
Core Belief: I want love but I will get hurt. People are both necessary and dangerous. I cannot trust but I cannot survive alone.
Strategy: Disorganized—oscillates between seeking closeness and pushing away. No consistent strategy for handling attachment needs.
Core Type
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