How the 9-Wing Modifies Type 1
The 9-wing cools the 1's anger into stubborn silence. Creates benevolent distance—respecting boundaries to a fault. Expresses love through consistency and quiet maintenance.
In Relationships
Strengths
- Calm and composed presence
- Respects partner's autonomy
- Principled and reliable
- Non-intrusive caring
Challenges
- Emotional inaccessibility
- Stonewalling during conflict
- Issues ignored until calcified
- May view neediness as irrational
Conflict Style
Withdraws into stony silence. Retreats to private space to process. Stubborn, silent resistance.
Loving Style
Mind mate seeking. Values quiet coexistence. Shows love through consistency and loyalty.
Attachment Style Tendency
Primary Tendency
Dismissive-Avoidant
The Island
Secondary Tendency
Secure
The Anchor
Wing Effect on Attachment
9-wing cools the 1's anxiety into emotional self-sufficiency. Views 'needy' behavior as irrational. Zones out attachment distress.
Dismissive-Avoidant Attachment
Values independence highly. Uncomfortable with too much closeness. May dismiss the importance of relationships while appearing self-sufficient.
Core Belief: I don't really need others. Depending on people leads to disappointment. I am complete on my own.
Strategy: Deactivation—minimizes attachment needs and pulls away when things get too close. Maintains emotional self-sufficiency.
Core Type
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