Both feel deeply and can be anxious. Four seeks uniqueness; Six seeks security. Can understand each other's fears.
- ✓Both emotionally aware
- ✓Loyalty meets depth
- ✓Understand each other's anxiety
- !Can amplify each other's fears
- !Four's drama vs. Six's practicality
- !Both can be reactive
Mutual reactivity escalates. Six tests; Four withdraws. Anxiety feeds anxiety.
How Each Type Sees the Other
Initial Attraction
The Six's loyalty and commitment; their willingness to show up through difficulty.
Core Perception
A devoted ally who provides stability, but whose anxiety can feel unsettling.
Trigger Points
- •The Six's doubt triggering the Four's insecurity
- •Anxiety disrupting emotional processing
- •The Six questioning the Four's authenticity
What They Appreciate
The Six's genuine loyalty and commitment; their courage in facing fears.
Blind Spot
The Four's emotional storms frighten the Six; the Four doesn't see their intensity as threatening.
Initial Attraction
The Four's emotional depth and authenticity; their willingness to be real.
Core Perception
A genuine soul who doesn't pretend, but whose emotional intensity can feel destabilizing.
Trigger Points
- •The Four's dramatic emotional swings
- •Unpredictability in mood and behavior
- •The Four's withdrawal during the Six's need
What They Appreciate
The Four's genuine authenticity and emotional courage; their loyalty to truth.
Blind Spot
The Six's anxiety amplifies the Four's intensity; the Six doesn't see their worry as contagious.
- →Four learns Six's loyalty
- →Six learns Four's self-expression
- →Both grow in security
Ground each other rather than amplifying fears. Create security together.